Birthday, Buying Spree & News

For my birthday our son filled dad's jukebox with 45s that I had owned when I was a teen. The jukebox is in the basement and too heavy to remove so we are going to embrace it. Our son had read my blog post about The Music I Grew Up With as a guide to what records to buy.

My dad bought this 1970s Seeburg Firestar from a local biker bar

Our son also made me dinner and gave me a collection of loose teas. So far they are very good!

My brother gave me a gift certificate to Monk's Bread and I got this great box of bread, biscotti, and preserves. They are made by Trappist Monks in Genesee, NY.

We can add more records to the jukebox so on Sunday after visiting the Clawson farmer's market I ran down to the Royal Oak flea market where I found hundreds of 45 records to choose from! I came home with:
Chicago-Does Anyone Really Know What Time It s
Dionne Warwick-PIromises, Promises and also Say a Little Prayer
Frank & Nancy Sinatra-Something Stupid
Barry McGuire-Eve of Destruction.
Marvin Gaye -Mercy, Mercy and also Ain't no Mountain High Enough
Bob Dylan-Spanish is the Loving Tongue
The Association-Windy

And I picked up other treasures.

My husband always talked about Rootie Kazootie and the Pineapple Pies which he loved as a boy in the 1950s. He asked for a pineapple pie, and his mom made him one. For over forty years he has asked me to make a pineapple pie. I think I did--once--perhaps it is time to make another. After revisiting this book, I am sure he will be dreaming of them again.

I had not read Robert Pinksky so picked up this 2011 volume of his poetry. A quilting friend was a relative and had met him at family gatherings when she was young.

I added a few pieces to my huge sheet music collection. I couldn't resist My Wife's Gone to the Country Hurrah! Hurrah! with Irving Berlin as one of the writers.

And I picked up some old pops songs and this adorable cover of Polly Wolly Doodle, a song our infant son loved me to sing to him.

The farm market is filled with goodies this time of year. Wonderful local corn, green and wax beans, sweet peppers, and beets came home with us. Also peaches and nectarines and heirloom tomatoes.

My husband baked bread yesterday, his favorite oatmeal. I made bread with apples from our apple trees!

I placed my first order to Penzy's Spices, lured by the excellent freebies. I bought a four-jar set of spices to make salad dressings and also lemon pepper (without salt) that uses real lemon peel. I got free shallots and cinnamon sugar, and some sample bay leaves, nutmeg, cinnamon sticks were thrown in too!

I  entered a coloring contest for National Coloringbook Day sponsored by Dover Publications. I won these coloring books!

Last week I took this quilt to show and tell in my weekly group. Remembrance of Things Past was made for a quilt guild challenge at Capital City Quilt Guild in Lansing, Michigan many years ago. The center is appliqued with colored pencil details. The fabrics, image scans, and embellishments all have some memories or ambiance of memories.

Remembrance of Things Past by Nancy A. Bekofske

detail of Remembrance of Things Past by Nancy A. Bekofske

In the photo below you can see the patch for Lawrence Tech where my grandfather Lynne O. Ramer taught mathematics; my brother later graduated from Lawrence Tech. Also, the SSX-1 submarine patch from my uncle Dave Ramer who worked on the sub in the 1960s.

detail of Remembrance of Things Past by Nancy A. Bekofske

My uncle Dave Ramer

my grandmother Evelyn Greenwood Ramer on the SSX-1

my grandfather Lynne O. Ramer on the SSX-1

I have pinback buttons on the quilt including Give Earth a Chance from the first Earth Day and an ERA button; also a scanned photo of our dog Kili (photo above) and a childhood hair ribbon, a mushroom pin I gave Mom. Note the scanned photo of Niagara Falls.

I am working on many projects, as usual: hand quilting my Peter Pan Story Book quilt, finishing my challenge quilt, and working on making hexies.

 It is hard to believe that September is quickly coming! Where did the summer go?

The Music I Grew Up With, 1966-1972

It was the music of Simon and Garfunkel that brought me to admit I liked popular/rock music. Sounds of Silence wasn't silly and it wasn't about love. I have no idea what it is about. But it seemed deep. Sounds of Silence was the first 45 record I ever bought and the album was one of the first albums I ever bought.

I soon was buying records with most of my allowance. I bought record boxs at K-Mart to store them in and wrote all the records on the index card provided.

I had record boxes like these

Index cards with the records I bought

Some were great records; others have been long forgotten.

Missing from my collection were the songs so often played I didn't need to buy them, especially The Beatles, and living in Metro Detroit, Motown.

Sheet music cover For Once In My Life by Stevie Wonder

Here are the records I bought between January 1966 and 1972. I have links for the songs that are not as well known.

1967

• Sounds of Silence, Simon and Garfunkel. Simon says he was inspired by Bob Dylan.
• Michelle, Billy Vaughn's cover of the Beatles hit.
• Lightnin' Strikes, Lou Christie.
• Flowers on the Wall, the Statler Brothers. My mom liked this one.
• Ebb Tide/I Love You for Sentimental Reasons, the Righteous Brothers.
• Elusive Butterfly, Bob Lind. Learn more about it here.
• Can't Grow Peaches on a Cherry Tree, Just Us. Very folk-rock.
• The Ballad of the Green Berets, St. Barry Sadler. The patriotic hit just before the anti-war movement.
• Homeward Bound/Leaves that are Green, Simon and Garfunkel. I still sing both of these.
• What Now My Love, Tijuana Brass. Mom was a big Herb Alpert fan. We had all the records and Mom bought me the piano music to learn.

My music book of Herb Alpert

Sheet Music cover of Bang, Bang

• Bang, Bang, Sonny and Cher. Mom liked this one.
•  Message to Michael, Dionne Warwick. What a voice!
• Sloop John B, The Beach Boys. Still singing this one. Love it.
• Norwegian Wood, George Edwards. Folksy with an ethnic flair.
• Monday, Monday, the Mamas and the Papas. I loved their harmonic singing.
• Sweet Talkin' Guy, The Chiffons. Upbeat girl band song.
• I Am A Rock, Simon and Garfunkel. I told you I was a fan. This song is my antithesis.
• Strangers in the Night, Frank Sinatra. So sweet I didn't realize it was about getting laid.
• Paint it Black, The Rolling Stones. I was getting edgy in my music taste.
• Rainy Day Women, Bob Dylan. And getting edgier!
• You Don't Have To Say You Love Me, Dusty Springfield. Schmaltz for sure.
• He, The Righteous Brothers. The girl who bought this also bought Rainy Day Women?
• Red Rubber Ball, The Cyrkles. Bubble Gum Music.
• Little Red Ridding Hood, Sam the Sham and the Pharaohs. Warning girls about boys.
• Tar and Cement, Verdelle Smith. Loss of country beauty.
• Sweet Dreams, Tommy McLain. Rockified Country.
• The 1812 Overture by Tchaikovsky came free from Puffed Rice.
• Out of this World, Chiffons. Another upbeat song from the girl band.
•  Reach Out, I'll Be There, The Four Tops. So good. That driving beat.
• The Dangling Conversation, Simon and Garfunkel. Love the poetry.
•  I've Got You Under My Skin, The Four Seasons. I love this so much. "So deep in my heart, you're really a part of me...I've got you under my skin." Those bells. "Never win." That pause before the coda. Sigh.
• Hazy Shade of Winter, Simon and Garfunkel. Remains one of my favorites; I sing it every November.
• I Who Have Nothing, Terry Knight and the Pack. Written by Ben E. King. Performed by a local DJ. Overwrought.

Sheet music cover for Born Free with Roger Williams

• Born Free, Roger Williams. Piano, percussion, and choir version of the movie theme.
• Winchester Cathedral, New Vaudeville Band. Music Hall inspired fun, megaphone and all.
• Mellow Yellow, Donovan. He says it's about being laid back. And also about vibrators.
• We Ain't Got Nothing Yet. Blues Magoos. Pre-Acid rock one-hit wonder.
• Beauty is Only Skin Deep, The Temptations. Motown!
• Snoopy Vs. the Red Baron, Royal Guardsmen. So much fun!
• Knight in Rusty Armor, Peter & Gordon. Another humorous song.
• I Had Too Much to Dream Last Night, The Electric Prunes. Psychedelic!
• Music to Watch Girls By, Bob Crewe Generation. Cool. Very Cool. Bond cool.
• Ruby Tuesday/Let's Spend the Night Together, The Rolling Stones. Grim. "There's no time to lose, I heard her say/Catch your dreams before they slip away/Dying all the time/Lose your dreams/And you will lose your mind./Ain't life unkind?"
• Penny Lane/Strawberry Fields, The Beatles. So sweet.
• This Precious Time, Terry Knight and the Pack. I guess being local, his songs were played a lot.
• Begging, The Four Seasons.
• Something Stupid, Frank and Nancy Sinatra.
• One More Mountain to Climb, Ronnie Dove. Boy, I don't even remember this one.
• Happy Jack, The Who. What a strange song. I like it. Read about it here.
• Girl, You'll Be A Woman Soon, Neil Diamond. Whatever. Mom liked Neil Diamond.
• I've Got Rhythm, The Happenings. Great Gershwin song. Fun version even with the dip-dip-dip.
•  She'd Rather Be With Me, The Turtles. My favorite Turtles song was Happy Together.
• The New York Mining Disaster 1941, The Bees Gees. Read the story of the real mine disaster here.
•  Can't Take My Eyes Off You, Franki Valli and the Four Seasons. Another one I loved.
• The River is Wide, The Forum. "Blue-eyed Soul."
•  C'mon Marianne, The Four Seasons
• I Was Made to Love Her, Stevie Wonder. Soul. The producer took Stevie to a Detroit Baptist church for inspiration.
• I Like the Way, Tommy James & Shondells. A band from Niles, Michigan.
• Twelve-Thirty, The Mamas and the Papas. I heard it on the radio and it knocked my socks off.

Sheet music cover of Stand By Me, Ben E. King

• Stand By Me, Spyder Turner. It's become one of my most beloved songs of all time.
• A Place in the Sun, Stevie Wonder. Hopeful, lovely.
• Look Through My Window, Mamas and the Papas. "And nothing's quite as sure as change."
• By the Time I Get to Phoenix, Glen Campell. Sinatra thought it the greatest torch song ever written.
• Hello, Goodbye/I Am A Walrus, The Beatles. A very strange duo for one record.
• Love is Blue, Al Martino. Orchestral, art singer version.
• Baby, Now That I've Found You, The Foundations. This Motown sound soul band was interracial.
• She's a Rainbow, the Rolling Stones. Trippy and pretty. Tambourine, piano, and drum are great.
• Opus 17, The Four Seasons. Classical vibe going on.
• Heroes and Villians, Beach Boys. The music goes all over the place. What a brilliant trip!
• Trains, and Boats, and Planes, Dionne Warwick. Gorgeous. Wistful. Heartbreaking.
• Kind of a Drag, The Buckinghams. Chicago brass sound band.
• In Need of a Friend, The Cowsills. It's about needing a friend.

Sheet Music cover of Easy to Be Hard from Hair

1968

• Honey, Bobby Goldsboro. Sweet, nostalgic, sentimental story.
• Mrs. Robinson/OldFriends-Bookends, Simon and Garfunkel. "When you got to choose/every way you look at this you lose." Old Friends on the flip side I still love.
• The Singer Sang His Song, The Bees Gees. Emotional ballad.
• Mac Arthur Park, Richard Harris. Tortured, surreal. Read about the lyrics here.
• Reach Out of the Darkness, Friend and Lover. Groovy! Love, friendship, and getting together idealism. Talk to each other, connect. What happened to that idea?
• Jumpin' Jack Flash, The Rolling Stones. Jack was a gardener? 
• Hurdy-Gurdy Man, Donovan. He was inspired by TM? Some say it was a perfect trip song.
• Pictures of Matchstickmen, Status Quo. Psychedelic. Read about it here.
• Turn Around, Look At Me, The Vogues. Unrequited love, reduced to pleading for attention.
• Mr. Businessman, Ray Stevens. Stop and smell the roses. "Spending counterfeit incentive/Wasting precious time and health/Placing value on the worthless/Disregarding priceless wealth." 
• Light My Fire, Jose Feliciano. Latin jazz version. His first contracted performance was in Detroit.
• Keep Me Hanging On, Vanilla Fudge. Psychedelic/Pre-Metal cover of the Motown hit.
• Halfway to Paradise, Bobby Vinton. So old fashioned a sound for 1968.
• Hey, Jude/Revolution, The Beatles.#8 Greatest Song on Rolling Stones. My best friend and I sang it all the time.

Sheet music cover for Witchita Lineman by Glen Gampbell

Sheet music cover of Don't Let Me Down by the Beatles

1969

• Aquarius/Let the Sun Shine In, The 5th Dimension. Hippie peace and love from musical Hair.
• Atlantis, Donovan. Seemed profound at the time.
• Don't Let Me Down/Get Back, The Beatles. I spent a depressed summer listening to this.
• Hello, Starshine, Oliver. Another happy hippie song from Hair.
• Laughing, Guess Who. "Time goes slowly but carries on/Now the best days have come and gone."
• Hurt So Bad, The Lettermen. Another breakup song.
• I Can't Quit Her, Arbors. And another breakup song from an Ann Arbor MI group.
• Where's the Playground, Susie, Glen Campbell. Another sad love song by Jimmy Webb.
• Just Can't Help Believing, B.J. Thomas. Pop singer who covered every genre.

Sheet music cover for theme from Love Story

Sheet music cover El Condo Paso, Simon and Garfunkel

1970

• Indiana Wants Me, R. Dean Taylor. Man murders to protect his woman's honor.
• Peace Will Come, Melanie. Hippie folk rock from Woodstock.
• El Condor Paso, Simon and Garfunkle
• Fire and Rain, James Taylor
• Ticket to Ride, The Beatles. An old one I found somewhere.
• If You Could Read My Mind, Gordon Lightfoot. Lovely.
• Deja Vu, Crosby, Sills, and Nash

Sheet music cover for Leaving on a Jet Plane
performed by Peter, Paul and Mary
written by John Denver

Sheet music from Carly Simon

Albums were expensive. But I bought quite a few, there were lost by accidental water damage. Here are the ones I remember:

• Happy Together by the Turtles
• Sounds of Silence by Simon and Garfunkel
• Rubber Soul by the Beatles
• Beach Boys album--but I forget which one
• Procol Harem. A Whiter Shade of Pale, Reid said, is 'evocative,' not about sex or drugs.
• Bob Dylan's Greatest Hits (1967)
• Sgt Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band
• Songs of Leonard Cohen. I loved Suzanne.
• Realization by Johnny Rivers. It had a great sound.
• Beggars Banquet by The Rolling Stones. Sympathy for the Devil.
• Remember the Wind and the Rain by folk singer Jamie Brockett
• Abby Lane by the Beatles. Everyone was so excited when it came out.
• Candles in the Rain by Melanie
• Bookends by Simon and Garfunkel
• Crosby, Sills and Nash. It was so fresh.
• Chicago, the big Chicago band sound was all the rage at college that September, blaring out of the dormitory windows.
• Sweet Baby James, James Taylor
• Tommy, The Who
• Jesus Christ Superstar

Sheet music cover of Colour My World, Chicago

Some of my piano sheet music didn't make it through 14 moves, including Sounds of Silence and Yesterday by the Beatles, but they were easy piano versions. I started collecting sheet music in the late 1970s and the photos in this post are from my collection of over 1,000.

Some recordings have grown on me over the years. Like Unchained Melody. That longing. Sigh.
I heard a college friend sing The Boxer by Simon and Garfunkel and I've loved it ever since.

"In the clearing stands a boxer
And a fighter by his trade
And he carries the reminders
Of ev'ry glove that laid him down
Or cut him till he cried out
In his anger and his shame
"I am leaving, I am leaving"
But the fighter still remains"

Much later I bought CDs of music I grew up with, including The Temptations. I sang, "Sugar pie honey bunch/You know that I love you/I can't help myself/I love you and nobody else" to my baby son. Marvin Gaye's What's Going On album also ended up on my shelf. I also bought piano music books of many artists, including Paul Simon.

I met my husband at Adrian College. We both loved classical music and choral singing. He also liked folk rock including The Kingston Trio, The Irish Rovers, and Peter, Paul and Mary. We became John Denver fans in the early 70s and saw him in concert several times. In 1978 we attended the Philadelphia Folk Fest and discovered many wonderful artists, including Stan Rogers, Priscilla Herdman, Roberts and Barrand, Eugene O'Donnell, and Jean Redpath. By this time the Disco/Philadelphia Sound was big and I wasn't keeping up with popular music.

For a long time, I avoided classic rock because the memories associated with the music was so strong, and too often so sad. I didn't want to think about those tortured teen years or the painful memories of the social and political upheaval of the '60s.

But to this day, when I hear a classic rock song on the radio I can tell you what year it came out and what was going on in my life at that time. It was, after all, the music I grew up with, interwoven in my life.

What music is part of your story?